Je suis aussi tombé sur cette pierre d'achoppement.
Je me trouve, depuis que demeurer ne corresponde pas au modèle des verbes transitif ou intransitif, vous devez remuer cet avis. N'est pas?
Most verbs use either avoir or être as the auxiliary verb in Passé composé (or other compound tense), but demeurer can take avoir or être depending on its meaning.
Notice that demeurer follows the opposite pattern to the other verbs that can take avoir or être.
être + demeuré + [adjectif]
= to remain + [adjective]
When demeurer means to remain in a state of being it takes être.
See also Agreeing past participle with subject's gender and number with (+ être) verbs in Le Passé Composé
avoir + demeuré [quelque part]
= to live [somewhere]= to stay [somewhere]
When demeurer means to remain or live somewhere it takes avoir.
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Examples and resources
J'ai demeuré chez lui pendant une semaine.
I stayed at his house for a week.
Je suis demeuré impassible pendant toute cette conversation.
I remained expressionless during all this conversation.
J'ai demeuré à Paris toute ma vie.
I lived in Paris all my life.
Il a demeuré à Paris pendant quelques mois.
He lived in Paris for a few months.
Elle est demeurée silencieuse pendant tout le trajet.
She remained silent the whole trip.
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Michael asked:View original
Grammahiles Corner Problem
Je suis aussi tombé sur cette pierre d'achoppement.
Je me trouve, depuis que demeurer ne corresponde pas au modèle des verbes transitif ou intransitif, vous devez remuer cet avis. N'est pas?
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In the examples, demeurer seems to reverse the être-avoir rule as to which it takes with direct and indirect objects. How come?
Asked 11 months ago
Hi Tim,
Sorry about the delay in getting back to you...
Demeurer as your rightly point out is an odd one as it doesn't really fit into the usual transitive and intransitive category of verbs which take avoir or être.
However, it does mean two different things and use both auxiliaries depending on its meaning.
Maybe a better way of thinking about it is :
When the verb demeurer describes a state it will take 'être' and when it describes an action, it will take 'avoir'.
However, this is just a particularity of that verb and there is no need to sweat over as you will often use other verbs to describe the same meaning, rester in the case of the state of being ,
Je suis demeuré/resté bouche bée = I stayed open mouthed
and vivre/habiter for the action,
Nous avons demeuré/vécu/habité rue St Martin pendant dix ans = We lived in Rue St Martin for ten years
You will find exceptions to all rules so this is very perceptive of you...'Vivre' is the same , intransitive but takes 'avoir'
J'ai vécu = I have lived
Hope this helps!
CécileKwiziq team member
Hi Tim,
Not quite sure if I have understood your question but in the 'Grammaphile's Corner' section of the lesson, it is explained that when the verb demeurer is transitive ( meaning it has an object) it uses 'avoir' and intransitive ( without object) it uses 'être' which seems consistent to me.
Hope this helps!
Kwiziq community member
Thank you, I think I am not seeing the obvious, but "j'ai demeure chez lui" and and " je suis resté chez lui" seem to mean the same thing.
Kwiziq community member
I don't want to fill up the question section with a daft question, but the more I think about this it seems to me that neither version of demeurer takes a direct object ie they are both intransitive. If I'm right the grammaphile advice which is great for everything else does not work for demeurer. If you can explain why I am wrong I would be very grateful. Thank you for your patience with a struggling student."
RodKwiziq Q&A regular contributor
Cecile's answer to Tim really helped me. I was also confused about the opposite behaviour of demeurer relative to other verbs that use etre or avoir depending on context. It would be very helpful if the lesson was altered to explicitly state that this verb is odd - all the other lessons state that if the verb is followed by a preposition (en, sur, dans, à etc) the auxillary is etre, but that is not the case for demeurer (e.g. Il a demeuré à Paris pendant quelques mois.). Explaining that it breaks the rules, and adding the core of Cecile's explanation would avert confusion. This comment from Cecile was particularly helpful: "When the verb demeurer describes a state it will take 'être' and when it describes an action, it will take 'avoir'."
CécileKwiziq team member
Hi all,
The lesson is going to be adapted and your comments will be taken into consideration.
Thank you very much for pointing those out...
Tim asked:View original
In the examples, demeurer seems to reverse the être-avoir rule as to which it takes with direct and indirect objects. How come?
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SamKwiziq community member
Je n'aurais pas imaginé que ce verbe pourrait être utilisé comme ça! Merci pour partager!
Asked 1 year ago
Hi Sam,
In French you will often find verbs which have different meanings. Grammatically they use different auxilliary verbs to conjugate in the past enabling us to tell their meaning apart. As Ron says French is a rich, verbose language which has many layers.
Demeurer ( with Avoir) is this case will be used to mean, to reside somewhere, but you will mostly hear the simpler habiter or vivre in spoken language .
In the other sense of staying (with Etre) you will probably mostly use "rester" in spoken language,
e.g. Elle est restée muette devant sa réaction rather than, elle est demeurée muette devant sa réaction.
Hope this helps!
Ron Kwiziq Q&A super contributor
Bonsoir Sam,
Il y a aussi plus de verbes ce qui utilisent «être» ou «avoir» et ils sont détaillés dans la leçon.
J'espère que ma réponse vous aiderait.
Bonne chance et bonne continuation dans vos études en français, la langue de Molière et qui a été utilisée par le monde français depuis l’époque d’Hugues Capet
Ron (un locuteur non natif )
Sam asked:View original
Je n'aurais pas imaginé que ce verbe pourrait être utilisé comme ça! Merci pour partager!
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SueKwiziq Q&A regular contributor
Demeurer in the present
could you use demeurerin sentences with the meaning " I remain silent", or "I am staying at his house/in Paris"
.
Asked 3 years ago
AurélieKwiziq team member
Bonjour Sue !
Yes, you can, although be aware that it sounds very "posh" and old-fashioned ;)
Je demeure silencieux pendant qu'elle parle.
En ce moment, je demeure chez des amis à Monaco.
À bientôt !
GerilynKwiziq community member
Aurélie,
Selon vous, alors, un(e) français(e) dirait plutôt :
Je reste silencieux pendant qu'elle parle. [?]
En ce moment, je suis descendu chez des amis à Monaco. [?]Merci
Merci beaucoup pour votre réponse.
AurélieKwiziq team member
Bonjour Gerilyn !
Yes, in colloquial French, we'll indeed use "rester" in the first case, and for the second case, you would rather say:
"En ce moment, je suis chez des amis à Monaco."
or
"En ce moment, je loge chez des amis à Monaco."
or
"En ce moment, je rends visite à des amis à Monaco."
Bonne journée !
GerilynKwiziq community member
Merci Aurélie,
You've answered a questions I've wondered about for a long time! Merci mille fois !
Sue asked:View original
Demeurer in the present
could you use demeurerin sentences with the meaning " I remain silent", or "I am staying at his house/in Paris"
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